May 29, 2011

Scary Things You Will Face When You Get Married

Ada 4 je ke?ahaks!anyway, aku highlight 4 point dr blog seseorang..,tapi byk lagilah realitinya..

1. You cannot do the things you enjoy doing anymore: contohnya takleh p vacation dgn kwn2.., takleh melepak smpai lwt mlm. no more karok!no more snooker!opss..ur focus now changes to partner dgn anak la plak..hihihi..
2. He is not the person you used to know: ni biasalah..before kawin, control je lebih..hak3..dh kawin, lmbt msk nasik pn kena marah..sob3
3. Life seems unfair<--ini sebab sorang je buat kerja.,.lg sorang lepas tgn..boleh goyang kaki tgk tv, main fb, bla3..slalunya lakilah..:P :P :P
4. Marriage requires a lot of energy: ya betol..nk kemas rumah, bgn pg pk nk mkn apa, kalo membujang tu x ksh pon, brunch trus la..hahhaahA..kena basuh baju laki, anak, diri sndiri, uruskan rumah..tu tak campor layan laki + anak lg..ouh!masa nk menguruskan diri pon takdak ~itu psl ramai pmpuan yg comot pas kawin..kesian...semua kena cepat, contohnya nk pegi outing kena uruskan anak dlu.,mandi anak, bawak bekal pampers+susu+food..tu tak ckp lg kerenah anak yg bagai..so, masa untuk diri sndiri adalah time laki + anak tido..time tu mesti la dh ngntuk+penat...sigh~>_<"


ini dipetik dr blog minah ni->http://hannahjohary.blogspot.com/2011/02/scary-things-you-will-face-when-you-get.html bes jugak layan~almost agree semua yg dia tulis..credit to her!silalah baca entry dia!

apa yg leh aku ckp lps baca entry dia;
marriage is quite scary, but after all, it is about responsibility from both parties..=) so, choose ur partner wisely and selectively~(our religion already highlighted the guideline perfectly:go for it!)

kesimpulan:
1. don't rush into relationship..(for those single)
2. don't scare to get married...(for couples)
3. think, think, think before decide!
4. well, nobody is perfect..the most important thing, willing to change, trying to be better and better..=)
5. get urself prepared physically and mentally before getting married..the first 1-3 yrs: period untuk mengenal partner anda..phase ni kena bersabar byk skit..

Sekian.,,Wallahualam..indeed, jodoh, pertemuan, ajal, maut, those all from Allah..aku redha atas segalanya..


p/s: ni buku roomate aku baru beli!..so..for those nk kahwin, get yourself well prepared..bacalah buku2 mcm ni..ahaks!

Lady Sasa

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